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Not Coming Out

Dom Kureen takes a glimpse at the homophobic attitude and fear associated with ‘coming out’ in men’s professional football.

Justin Fashanu’s limp, lifeless corpse dangles from the rafters of a dingy lock-up garage in Shoreditch, London, his neck is bound by a short length of rope and hangs loosely, seemingly held in place by something akin to a layer of Origami paper, as a member of the public stumbles upon the tragic scene.

Aged just 37 at the time of his death on May 2nd, 1998, Fashanu had at one point been regarded as English football’s next breakout star, signing a lucrative contract with Brian Clough’s high-flying Nottingham Forest in the summer of 1981 – subsequently becoming the first black player in the game to command a seven figure sum, following his £1m move from Norwich City.

Clough, a brilliant manager, but often unnecessarily outspoken man, had been shaped by traditional Victorian family values. This didn’t bode well for his new acquisition, who was banned from training with the rest of the squad after his sexual orientation and party lifestyle became common knowledge around the football club.

In one particularly fraught exchange, Clough barked angrily “Why do you keep going to that bloody poofs’ club?”

The relationship had reached breaking point and was severed irreparably soon after, when the Forest boss had his young striker escorted from the training pitch by two police officers.

Rapidly falling from grace, Fashanu came out publically in ‘The Sun’ on 22 October 1990 – the first high profile British sportsman to do so.

The sensationalised revelations led to widespread public and private criticism, notably at the hands of his younger brother, John, who was also a professional footballer.

“I wouldn’t like to play or even get changed in the vicinity of him, so if I’m like that then I’m sure that the rest of the footballers are like that” John said shortly after his brother’s tabloid revelations. The two siblings didn’t speak during the final seven years of Justin’s life.

In the 24 years that have passed since the Justin Fashanu exclusive broke, no active male professional footballer has come out, although a handful, such as former Aston Villa and Germany midfielder Thomas Hitzlsperger, have done so shortly after retiring from the game.

Indeed, even in the semi-professional game in Britain there is only one openly gay footballer, Gainsborough Trinity’s Liam Davis, who has been public about his homosexuality for four years.

Rugby, cricket, tennis and a myriad of other sports have long accepted homosexuality: be it Gareth Thomas, Steven Davies, Martina Navratilova or more recently Tom Daley, the diver who broke millions of female hearts when he used YouTube to announce his relationship with another man and was generally well received for his honest admission.

Tom Daley used YouTube to reveal his same-sex relationship
Tom Daley used YouTube to reveal his same-sex relationship.

Former England international footballer, Sol Campbell, was the target of derogatory, homophobic chants from the terraces throughout his career; despite no evidence to suggest that he was gay (he is now with wife and child).

Campbell revealed to ‘BBC News’ that in his opinion many fans and professionals still have the blueprint of a stiff upper-lipped 1970’s footballer in their mind, so anything that deviates from that prototype makes them uncomfortable… He probably has a valid point.

England women’s international, Casey Stoney, went public with her sexuality in 2014, revealing to the ‘Telegraph’ newspaper that she was inspired by the positive reaction Daley received:

  “I feel it’s really important for me to speak out as a gay player because there are so many people struggling who are gay, and you hear about people taking their own lives because they are homosexual. That should never happen.”

Conversely, the majority of her male counterparts remain, on the surface at least, far from ready to accept the presence of persuasions in conflict with heterosexuality among their peers. The primitive psyche that surrounds the sport is one reason why it is often perceived as the brutish step-cousin of competitive pastimes.

In that sense things have receded rather than progressed since Justin Fashanu was universally shunned more than two decades ago. One need only look at how that situation regrettably played out to see why there is still an apparent taboo on top-flight players admitting such a thing, but can more than 5000 professional football players really all be ‘straight’?

The blinkers are on. As football agent Eric Hall assuredly stated for ‘Inside Story’ “Football isn’t really a game that gay people play, I believe that there aren’t any homosexual players among the professionals.”

That sort of wishful thinking may provide a misguided crumb of comfort for a sport becoming jaded by its own deep-seated insecurities; a sport unable to come to terms with the inevitable from the sanctuary of its own cocoon.

Written by Dom Kureen

As a young rapscallion stranded on an Island, my time is split between writing, performing spoken word, wrestling alligators and delivering uplifting pep talks to hairdressers before they prune me. I meditate and wash daily when possible.

Interviews with Creative Minds #1 : Mike Keen

The first in the series of ‘Interviews of Creative Minds’ features Michael Keen, an aspiring musician and comedian.

The piece includes two of Mike’s original tracks, both downloadable from from Kureen.co.uk.

Written by Dom Kureen

As a young rapscallion stranded on an Island, my time is split between writing, performing spoken word, wrestling alligators and delivering uplifting pep talks to hairdressers before they prune me. I meditate and wash daily when possible.